The little things..

I'm lucky to be involved in the little part of life of all ages..

I could see the happy and relieved faces of parents when their newborn passed the hearing re-screening..

I could see the determination and positivity of parents who give the best that they can for their child despite of the time spent, energy, financial status, and even their career..

I could see the parents who slowly let go of their child for them to grow and learn and face the task by letting their child know that they would be giving unconditional support anytime just when the child needs it..

I could see the adolescents who still bring their parents with them while coming for assessment, not because they are independent or unable to be independent but they just wanna the accompaniment of their parents..

I could see the partners who accompanied each other for health screening and both would be blaming and denying of their respective bad habits and advising each other to change habits just to make sure both of them are healthy..

I could see children who accompanied their slowly aging parents even when they are angry with their stubborn parents for being stubborn.. And seeing them exchanging their roles and responsibilities as the parents are no longer acting like the parents of their children but behaving like children instead and vice versa..

And I saw a pair of 80plus couple coming in for hearing assessment. The husband doze off while waiting for the wife to do hearing assessment and awakes just to make sure the wife is doing the task.. No exaggerating action and this is just a super ordinary scene yet I could feel their sweet love at the age of 80y.o.. 

The scenes of "UP" do exist..

Life.. Is not about the big things or the outcomes.. 

Life.. Is about the little things and the journey that we choose..

25 years old

25 years old..

Having a loving family..

Having a bunch of jimuis who accepts just the way you are..

Found a love that you would want to live the rest of your life with him..

Worked for almost a year and trying hard to build my career despite feeling plateauing..

25years old..

The age where you start to realise the growing white hair of your mummy..

The age where you became the aunt of your siblings sons and daughters..

The age where you talked with your jimuis what you wanted to do in life yet no conclusion but keep being lost in the end..

The age of wanting to settle down with your loved ones yet you start feeling afraid of settling down.. Afraid of being like any other people to settle down, get married and have children and focusing everything to the children and that's the end of life..

The age of wanting to build your career yet you don't spend time and energy and brain cells with the excuse of no money to build knowledge in career.. 

The age of spending time and energy and money into shopping, coffee, food, singing k, sleeping and some sport activities that you claimed to relax yourself from the busy lifestyle..

The age of you just wish you can travel everywhere, experience life in other countries, get your master and PhD done..

So much dreams that you wanna chase after yet you don't know where and how and when to begin it..

To the 25 years old me..

Please treat and love yourself better..

Time to move on from being lost..

Time to find yourself..

Time to think and move forward to your dreams..

You only live once..

Appreciate communicating with your loved ones

It's always super duper heartwarming seeing parents bring their child or children bringing their parents for hearing assessment, (re)habilitation, giving them the best technology that they could, emotional support, quality time and energy just to make sure their loved ones able to communicate with them.. #appreciate #communication #love